The Oklahoma Eagle (Tulsa, Okla.), Vol. 93, No. 37, Ed. 1 Thursday, September 12, 2013 Page: 8 of 12
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about Hi* Father s business
first and foremost none ot us
would be savi*d or nxies-med
back to the Father or de-lix
ered from under the curse ot
the law
The time Jesus spent
alone praying to the Father,
absorbing His wisdom and
tention must he drawn to the
one thing that made all the
other things possible lime
management Had lesus not
Tips for Breaking The I vile Of Un
healthy Relationships for IXomcn
Amtlius Kuyna Antonia Brown. 27
Date of Death: August 31, 2013 tn Lubbock. Tex
Date of Service*: Saturday, September 7,2013 at 1 27 p
at Biglow sAII Faiths Chapel
Keith D Biglow Funeral Directors, Inc
In Coring Memory
Eva Mae Jones HHHHI
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A batters c arrierenev *4 be at
9 00 a m on Friday September 13 m
the Sequoyah Auditorium 2400 N
Lincoln Blvd Oklahoma City
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we will again be reunited in our love for eternity. Beau*
tiful, you will never be forgotten! I love you more today
than I did yesterday and I will love you more tomorrow
than I did today. You are in my thoughts daily. I love you
and miss you tremendously!
— I ove always your husband l^renzo fortes Sr. and
children Shena. Sharon, Lorenzo fr„ and Dtedre
without a partner Additionally, more
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Amerna Inc in homes without their ta
ther, according to the U S ( emus data
”1 know fathers and mothers w ho are
unmarried, vet both are ven proactive tn
thenr chiklren * lives and are bv all ac-
counts doing a great )ob with their kids,"
UHiis-Scott says "Unfortunately, the
number of father* In ing tHitside the home
ot their children often rvfksts a Luk ot
partKipatKVi tnim n»M ot those father*
A girl's first lox e is tier lather, and if
he has abandoned tier, she w ill find her-
self in nimantk relationship that are
similarly unhealthy later in lite, she
says While writing the book on the ex-
traordinary life ot her motlxer, Mattie
Fisher. who was married five times and
who didn t have a relationship w ith her
father until midlife, I ouis Soft realized
lust how formative a father’s rule is in
his daughter s life
It a fattier treats his daughter like a
princess, she will demand better treat
ment in her romantic relationship* she
saxs "But it he treat* tier pisulv she
What disaster would result'
We are blessed to be
alive m this work! because
God is a close observer
There are men ot whom you
can My." They have eye* but
see not" These are unobser
vant people lhere are tc*lks
who pass bv the most obx i
ous things and nexer see
them They are dreamers
who live in a world ot their
own fashion and tail to see
the thing* that are happen-
ing about them
Laid is a close observer
God ***** everywhere You
and I can see clearly only
that which i* near (tbject*
are lost to u* at a distance
But there is no distance to
God's vision No hour ot
darkness hides one thing
from the view ot (kid lhere
ls no place to hide from (kid
(kid sees the good The eve*
of the lord are in every
place (k>d never close* Hi*
ev e* (>od i* a c lose < >b*erv er
fust thinking...
In the past war. Heart! ine served
approximately 181,000 people I he (H
stadium can seat about 82,iKM) people
Fill it up twice, adxl about 17.000 tail
gaiters and then sit down with every I
single person and talk to them f»»r
about ‘i minutes, some of them for I
minutes or longer In those conversa- I
tions, listen to their fears, anxieties I
and frustrations I
Give tfwm some options w hich they I
may not haxe svn before and *»-nd
•hem out ot tlw stadium one by one
This is the work done bx I leartl ine C all
Specialists working an>und the cUs k to f
empower the people of Oklahoma w ith
help, hope and information
Is this an e.tsx task’ No Is it needed’
Yes' As a voluntivr Call Spvialist with |
Heart! ire you will be helping to em I
power people on a dailx basis The x ital i
work you will conduct helps our o»mmu
mty to evaluate service gjps. identitx
trend* m needs and find realistk solu-
In Amerna* tarn Hie* much has
been made about th*- effect on boys
whoM- father* are not amund to help
raise them, but Dee Loui* S utt, co-chair
for the Black Family It* hnology Aw are-
ness Association * Youth STFM Fair
says the consequence* ire very tangible
in the lives ot girls, too
"Even though my t.itlier wa* in my
life until his [xassing, 1 did mit understand
him, and it was alwax* An emotsmally
distant relatkmship" savs Lou» Scott.
author of "Believe in the Magic
"Tie men 1 married were emotion
ally distant, much of n-x time was spent
chasing their luxe, tanw and attention
The pnibiem was that I never experi-
enced a true partners!vp between a hus-
band and wite as a girl
New polls suggest "father hunger
is continuing to altei the family struc-
ture in the United (Lues A recent Asm>
ciated Tress pollfind* 42 percent of
women would emuocr having a child
.ire made w hn h «ould indk ate a pattern
of pn>blems w ithui the tamilx
I >1 Is is kx-king ti> partner w ith *u>
cvsMui vendors tucloae all backlog <aww
bx lanuarx 11, 2014 DHS will pnnidc
training to vendor* on Oklahoma Mate
''Utufes regarding . hild abuse mxiwtiga
tion* ( IN prlkv anti pnsedures. twl
p<a» tk vs related tochiki abuse inxestiga
bon* and dcxumentatkin in the chikt
welfare* *v*tx*m IntenMxd vendors can
x lew tin- tiv|ue*t h»r pnipwal* and qual
tfkabons pwtisl on the (Mkc ot Man
agrtnent a ui f ntrrpnM* stx kes ( entr.il
Purchasing Division website at
Imp* www.ok.gux des sulkil app/
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til) euvs"
Christ Temple ( Mf .hutch will be crkbrating
"Friends and Family l>ax Sunday, September
15th, 2013 at 3 00 p m Featured guest w ill be Evan-
gvhst DeWayne (wslightlx (Ml church general
secretary ot Evangelism and Missions
Evangelist GoLightly accepted his call to j
preach when he was 24 xearsold in W77 He has
pastured 10churches mhis 35 years of Ministry He
is a graduate of Wvst.-m kentuckv Unix ersitx w ith |
a degree in wkial work and prex kmsly worked in
luxenik* services tor the commonwealth of Ken 1
tucky tor 15 wars I vangeltst Gol ightlv is the first
Christian rapper He has bwn sharing th*- go*p-l in
rap since l'aM<* t hi |ulx I. 2010. at th*- C*en*-ral ( on-
ference in Mobik* Ala He was cksted (-enet.il s .
rotary of Evangelism and Missions He is the father
ot three children
the many new- casewurker pwition» we
began filling al five start ot the calendar
war said PH's Director Id lake (hit
efforts to reduce what is essentiallx a
pap-twork backkig ate taking signitt
cant time and resources away from
«
planning priorities
Approximatelv hS (hlI allegations
ot possible abuse and neg its t are tv
cvix<st c.ix h x ear bx tin-1 >1 iS Abuse and
Neglect Hotline Xppnmmatelv h.iit of
th*- reports are accepted for inxestiga
tion with abuse and neglect found in
around 20 p-rcent ol the ...s<-s A signif
Kant numlvt ol children are Imind to be
in immediate danger and must be
placed in tin- foster care sxstem Manx
other la mi tie* are uliervsi ui.kcs to rv
main togdher and the cases rfoced
w'lthodt natd lor further intrrvcnton
lXkiimc-tit.ition of all investigations is
critical in the event anv future- repirts
If
believe
Bible is the
inspired
word ot
(kid. all ot it.
then you must believe what
this wise man wrote
Silomon -.nd. The eves of
the Lord are in every place,
beholding the evil and the
good.* Pros 15 3 Dues it
seem unreasonable to you
that (kkt can see the entire
world and every creature in
it at the sirne tune’ That is
ik>t unreasonabk- No truth is
unreasonable and God s
weird is the truth
The sacred Scripture
sp-aks of th*- anti of God. the
hands ot ( hk! and the eve* ot
God We speak in figurative
language when we spesk of
God in that respect But
think with me would it not
be an awful thing it this uni-
verse were turned over to
the governing of a blind
piwer’ VYhat confusion1
Luke22J9
lesus went out been of the mind set ot being
as usual to the
Mount ot
(>liv es, and hi*
disciples fol-
lowed him 4<’ (hi reaching
the place, he *aid to them.
Prav that you will not tall
into temptation 41 He with
drew about a stone s threw
beyond them, knelt down being intimate with Him
and prayed. 42 "Father, if paved the wav for Him to
vou are w tiling take this cup have th*- piwer that it would
from me vet not my will, but take to raiM* the dead Mark
your* be done 43 An angel 5 35-43, raising up lairus
from heaven appeared to daughter Matthew »»18-2h
him and strengthenx-d him lesus raised up the ruler s
And being in anguish, he daughter, and to heal thewe
with physical infirmities
Matthew 9 27-31, lesus
healed the two blind men
The more time we *p-nd
in prayer, particularly giv ing
(kxl the first fruits ot our day
more
we can hear that still small
voice w ithin u* helping us to
rvpnoriti/e our to-do lists
There are some thing* that
we have at the bottom of our
to-do lists that actually
should be higher up in order
of importance And there are
some things that we have up
high that should either be
much lower on the lest or not
even on th*- list at all
In other words, what we
do with our time is going to
determine how we tare in the
lh*- publu is inv itixf to share a tun tilksi after
nikwi of teUowship and the wont Chrwt Temple i* U>
cated at 2802 N Lewis Ave Rev ‘'taev Cok Pastor
prayed more earnestly, and
hi* sweat was like dreps of
blcxxl tailing to th** gniund
(Yvrsr 45) When he nwe
from prayer and went back
to the disciples, he found
them asleep exhausted from by way of prayer the
sorrow 4t> Why are you
sleeping’ he asked them
t H-t up and prav ao that you
will not tall into temptation *
We often marvel at the
counties* number of miracles
lesus p-rtormed, we are mes-
merized bv Hi* w isdom and
..iptivated bv His inner
strength and unparallek*d di-
mension of boldness and
self assurance But what the
Lord, Hirnselt. wants us to
glean from m*»st is how He
managed His time
It we re going to pay- at-
tention to anything, our at-
Wisdom In time Management
Is Key To Good Success
hiMNLM
IB' I Gsnt CMMMtrl
Department of Human Services (DHS) Seeking
Agencies To Help With Backlog Of Case Reports
OKLA1KYMA CITY The Okla
homa Department ot Human Services
(DHS) is asking h»r propwals from
qualified vendors to help n-*«ihe past
due Child Pnitec tiv e Serv k e*
(( l*s) CAse repirts As ot September
9, 2013, appniximatelv 3.100 CIN i.im
rvputs were backkiggvd meaning tlic
cam* is pending after net day* In these
case*, an investigation was conducted,
tfie children interv i*-wist and an initial
safety deciMon was made by ( I** statt
however, the case has not been&iocu
mentis! in the child welfare sy*tc*m and
ckwed according to DHs p>licv DHS is
working aggressively to address the
hkklog using a vanetv of appmaches.
but there will likely be- around 2,(XX1
(vast due case* still requiring «»ure
This ba< kk»g is the dirext result ot
the sh.iq' growth in the numlret of chil
dren in our cu»tc«dv combined with the
lag time it takes to hire, train and depkn
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Father Hunger: His Absence Affects His Daughters
w ill kome toexpvt that and even seek it
out in future relationship* “
For women w he we fathers hav e pn>
v ided a pmr example. I out* Scott offer*
these relationship tip tor wonxen who
want to break the- cyde ot unhealthy
partner-seeking:
• ( -iwkiet your relationship with
your father Ladies, what kind of dx-m
istrx do you have with Dad. do you even
have a relationship with him’ How
might tins be- influencing yuur romantic
desisioru’ Take anmdephkxik at the* re-
lationship hetwesm you ind yuur father
A punsUking rev tew w ill help you ax ord
sabotaging a current or future mmantx
hunt lhe first and pn^Mblv the tvardcst
thing do «to recognize* and dchne the
prul'lem it any
• lake- time tor y(>*i (let up every
morning w ith the- thought dial you are re-
building your hte Ri*ward viHirsett. p-._
hap with a massage-, a good htxdi <w a
long biki- nde Whik* refkxling tn vrxir
**>litude. think about the mk- vou play**j
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